I woke up this morning to a rather rude message from a ‘potential’ s-type detailing how they felt that My partner was being aggressive towards them via status update comments. (I know, this is like high school.) Rather than perpetuate any negativity between them (and drama in My feed) I deleted My own status and talked to each of them privately. Unfortunately, My decision to break the acquaintance off was largely in part to the s-type not following one of My biggest rules: transparency.
I have been with My partner nearly 5 years, she is literally My best friend and soul mate. She knows Me better than anyone and has seen Me at My worst (unlike anyone else). Every struggle in Our relationship has been a learning experience, one that I wouldn’t trade for all the money in the world. She has more than earned My trust and love and for someone to pass judgement on her without even knowing her at all, well, that doesn’t sit right with Me.
Mind you, this particular person has been on again off again (re: communication) and has unrealistic expectations of My time. They have made ripples constantly; Be it with attitude or outright stubbornness. They have also neglected to reach out to My partner despite many nudges in that direction. So, this morning after clicking around twitter for a bit and brushing My teeth, communication with the s-type ceased.
I’m not sure what will happen to them, or that I even care at this point. If you cannot take the time to talk to My Primary Partner (after 2+ years of talking to Me), I have no time for you in My life. Communication is key in polyamory, if you keep things in and neglect to talk them out with your partner, things will implode.