Change is Cathartic

Over the last three months, I've been lingering on the sidelines, taking stock of My life & plans for My future. I have begun the (annoying) process of "rebranding" because My plans no longer lined up with who I was, "Miss Taphophile". In doing so, I embraced My darkness, My sadism, My desires, and My... Continue Reading →


I'm not sure where you've been lately, but some pretty monumental things are going on in the world around you. Women are finally taking what is theirs, practically Dominating a fast growing industry (MMJ), and making their own mark in the uber-capitalist world we live in. Where's the shame in that?  There is absolutely none.  (if you... Continue Reading →

Conditioning and Control

You finally got the courage to call My Niteflirt line today, how did it feel for you to hear Me live? Your nervous tone gave you away the second you introduced yourself; Do I make you sweat? Panic? Wish for some semblance of My approval? Maybe as My voice starts to worm its way into your mind?... Continue Reading →

Delusions of Grandeur: newbies

Lets say you're new to the fetish scene, you've never heard of Sadomasochism or the word Hitachi, and you've just read a few 'books' that claim to have legit perspective on the lovely world of BDSM. Your first mistake was thinking you could get all of the information you needed about this "brave new lifestyle"... Continue Reading →

New Orleans Trip

Road Trip to New Orleans this Spring! Any contributions will be TWEETED and you'll have VIP access to Our Adventure Photos! All Contributors will Be listed below. Want an easy way to contribute? Click "BUY NOW" $30 Total to date: $PAID OFF$ Amount until GOAL (including spending $): $00.00 Dolly - $500 Sofia - $300 Geist... Continue Reading →

Sisterhood in FetishLand

I'm a huge advocate for self empowerment. I like to promote positivity in the lifestyle I choose to lead. I surround Myself with people that enrich My life, as I do theirs. There is balance.  However, that balance doesn't come cheap, at all. In a Fetish world that is saturated with various outlets, it's really easy... Continue Reading →


Today, I read a status update on a website that I frequent that said the words "I will get what I want with or without your consent." This struck Me as very odd, because in the BDSM world consent is the most important thing that W/we can condone. If you think of Yourself as a... Continue Reading →

PSA: BDSM and Morals

“Respect for Ourselves guides Our morals; respect for others guides Our manners” ― Laurence Sterne Hopefully, E/everyone reading this has some semblance of manners. In this technological age, it's so simple to bypass common courtesy for a faster result. Instant Gratification, as it were, is taking the place of legitimate BDSM Practices. As with any... Continue Reading →

A Technological Web

I love the age of technology; I have the ability to converse with all of My submissives through either Email, Yahoo, or Skype (or in Person). However, In this constantly evolving technology there are so many ways to hide behind a mask and keep others at arms length. Though I've found Myself briefly considering utilizing... Continue Reading →

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