Once you've accepted your place, giving MORE isn't worth a 2nd thought. You finally realize the truth, the only thing Women want from you is money. Now, instead of getting bent out of shape and trying to rage (or pout), let's imagine you've taken the right steps to further cement your dedication to Me. Where... Continue Reading →

Change is Cathartic

Over the last three months, I've been lingering on the sidelines, taking stock of My life & plans for My future. I have begun the (annoying) process of "rebranding" because My plans no longer lined up with who I was, "Miss Taphophile". In doing so, I embraced My darkness, My sadism, My desires, and My... Continue Reading →


*loyalty implies a faithfulness that is steadfast in the face of any temptation to renounce, desert, or betray Hello readers! After the awesome discussion on Blog-talk Radio Show Tuesday night, I was asked a couple of off-topic questions (which resulted in this very post): What is the difference between and owned sub and a community slut sub? How difficult is... Continue Reading →

PSA: BDSM and Morals

“Respect for Ourselves guides Our morals; respect for others guides Our manners” ― Laurence Sterne Hopefully, E/everyone reading this has some semblance of manners. In this technological age, it's so simple to bypass common courtesy for a faster result. Instant Gratification, as it were, is taking the place of legitimate BDSM Practices. As with any... Continue Reading →

Limits? What??!

A lot of folks in the Lifestyle have had time to find (or experience) what they're into or curious about. In fact, exploration is encouraged! BDSM isn't about fitting into a mold, it is about finding what gives you balance and pursuing it. Oftentimes, we're confronted with things that we aren't even remotely interested in, and... Continue Reading →

Fear and Suffering in Subspace

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”  - Yoda Fear [feer]noun 1. A distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid. REAL or IMAGINED. See, deep in your mind, you have... Continue Reading →

“Breaking Sub”

When you put a lot of time and effort in making a connection, it really doesn't matter if it's online or in real time. Being a FemDom works differently for everyone; Its glaringly obvious at times too. However, the main focus (for Me at least) is: Finding, Training, and Guiding an s-type. The whole "process"... Continue Reading →

Just Behave!

Various other blogs that I follow have had a similar trend lately: "What do you look for in a submissive?" Always be 100% honest Be Respectful Always do your BEST Be open-minded to both criticism and praise Never give up! Now, I'd like to mention another small "requirement"...POSITIVITY! I know that some Dominant People prefer... Continue Reading →

your place

"your place is at My feet kneeling, palms flat your place is in My grip firm but silkily wrapped around your throat your place is in your subjugation the promise of thoughtless days spent smiling your place is caged for Me kept locked, kept chaste no longer a product wasteful lust your place is focused on Me... Continue Reading →

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