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Once you've accepted your place, giving MORE isn't worth a 2nd thought. You finally realize the truth, the only thing Women want from you is money. Now, instead of getting bent out of shape and trying to rage (or pout), let's imagine you've taken the right steps to further cement your dedication to Me. Where... Continue Reading →

Change is Cathartic

Over the last three months, I've been lingering on the sidelines, taking stock of My life & plans for My future. I have begun the (annoying) process of "rebranding" because My plans no longer lined up with who I was, "Miss Taphophile". In doing so, I embraced My darkness, My sadism, My desires, and My... Continue Reading →

Loyalty*

*loyalty implies a faithfulness that is steadfast in the face of any temptation to renounce, desert, or betray Hello readers! After the awesome discussion on Blog-talk Radio Show Tuesday night, I was asked a couple of off-topic questions (which resulted in this very post): What is the difference between and owned sub and a community slut sub? How difficult is... Continue Reading →

Empowerment

I'm not sure where you've been lately, but some pretty monumental things are going on in the world around you. Women are finally taking what is theirs, practically Dominating a fast growing industry (MMJ), and making their own mark in the uber-capitalist world we live in. Where's the shame in that?  There is absolutely none.  (if you... Continue Reading →

Body Shaming: Mini-Rant

I've heard them all, every insult you could possibly think of. I've brushed them off, because it's usually some 'fly' buzzing around trying to make a nuisance of themselves for the sake of attention. That's Me, personally. However, what I don't really understand is why other Women choose to degrade and demean each other with... Continue Reading →

Sisterhood in FetishLand

I'm a huge advocate for self empowerment. I like to promote positivity in the lifestyle I choose to lead. I surround Myself with people that enrich My life, as I do theirs. There is balance.  However, that balance doesn't come cheap, at all. In a Fetish world that is saturated with various outlets, it's really easy... Continue Reading →

#Consent

Today, I read a status update on a website that I frequent that said the words "I will get what I want with or without your consent." This struck Me as very odd, because in the BDSM world consent is the most important thing that W/we can condone. If you think of Yourself as a... Continue Reading →

PSA: BDSM and Morals

“Respect for Ourselves guides Our morals; respect for others guides Our manners” ― Laurence Sterne Hopefully, E/everyone reading this has some semblance of manners. In this technological age, it's so simple to bypass common courtesy for a faster result. Instant Gratification, as it were, is taking the place of legitimate BDSM Practices. As with any... Continue Reading →

Limits? What??!

A lot of folks in the Lifestyle have had time to find (or experience) what they're into or curious about. In fact, exploration is encouraged! BDSM isn't about fitting into a mold, it is about finding what gives you balance and pursuing it. Oftentimes, we're confronted with things that we aren't even remotely interested in, and... Continue Reading →

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